The summer after the last year of high school and before the first year of college is an interesting summer — for both parents and students. There is the anticipation and excitement — coupled with stress, nerves, and the emotions of leaving home and friends behind. For parents, it’s about letting go — and having trust. Parents need to be especially patient — both with themselves and with their students — as everyone navigates this new territory.
That homeless feeling
One of the characteristics of this summer before college is the feeling of in-between that most high school graduates/not yet college freshmen feel. They are of both worlds, yet not really of either. It is a strange, somewhat homeless feeling for many students.
No longer high school
For much of the last year of high school your senior couldn’t wait to be done. The focus was on getting into college — grades, activities, college visits, applications, acceptance, decision, deposit. Once college admission is accomplished, many students settle into a few weeks (or months) of senioritis — and finish out the year.
The last part of senior year is, in many ways, one big send-off. There are senior projects, senior week or senior days, perhaps a senior trip, senior prom, graduation, parties. But now high school is finished. Your senior is no longer part of that world. The junior class may already have had a move-up or step-up day.
